[darkJester]

** WARNING... LONG POST AHEAD..... **
girls... playing video games.... LIES!!!!! no girl plays video games... especially on-line ones... it's a myth.... All female characters on line are actually guys pretending to be chicks....

ROFL... j/k... maybe.....

n e wayz... in response to your claim.... if it isn't video games, it's anime if it isn't anime, it's sports.... if it isn't sports it's cars.... if it isn't cars, it's porn... if it isn't porn it's music....

u getting my drift? most guys will always find something to occupy there time... something they can be addicted to.... something they will dedicate most of their life to... and a lot of girls will always bitch about this.. because they want attention, attention that the guy isn't giving them... attention that is focused on whatever they are addicted to...

but it's not ALWAYS like that.... if your chick is always bitching that you do TOO MUCH of something and don't spend enough time with her.. then there's one of two reasons for it... 1... she's a overbearing mental bitch who wants to control your life and wants u all to herself and u need to get rid of her.... or 2... u REALLY are spending TOO much time addicted to whatever u r doing, and u need to stop being a loser and spend more time with yo chick or dump her and cut off yo penis, cuz you won't need it anymore...

let me give u an example of a healthy relationship... bewteen somebody who loves video games and anime, and somebody who doesn't.... My ex. would call me all the time, and i'd talk to her while i was playing video games, she didn't mind at all, in fact she would tell me so... when she came over though... i would almost always stop whatever i was doing, and spend time with her... she would tell me "no.. u don't have to stop playing your video game, i can watch... i don't mind.... " but i would stop anyway... cuz i wanted to spend time with her too..... she didn't really like video games, and she only kinda like watching certain anime's... but eventually she wanted to play SOMETHING cuz she was curious.. so a friend lent her a gamecube, and i bought her a couple games that we both picked out.. i also lent her my gameboy... but whenever we spent time together, we would do OTHER Stuff... like go to the movies, out to eat, bowling, bar hopping, and go to conerts.... She NEVER bitched about me playing to much video games, and i never complained about spending time with her... what is this fancy NEW strategy u say? it's called compromise...
whats that u say??? but Jester.. if things were so good why is she your Ex. then???? well sadly... even though we had a good relationship... i never really felt the same way towards her as she did to me... in other words i didn't "love" her... so i decided to call it quits, cuz i didn't want to lead her on anymore... but the time we had together, was definitely very nice, and i wouldn't trade it for anything in the world...

so in short.. if any person doesn't want problems, they need to find somebody that isn't a bitch/loser, and they need to learn to manage their time better so they get sufficient time with your significant other and sufficient time playing video games or whatever hobby they are addicted too...

and thats my 2 cents...

k thxs...