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starfire · 03-15-2008, 07:42 PM

Look for girls at places you enjoy going to. You're more likely to meet a girl there with similar interests/values/pacing than a place that's "totally not you".

Also, women are wonderfully adaptable. So even if the girl you meet prefers to move at a different pace than you, odds are she'll adjust as long as you explain why you prefer to move at a different pace. You'll also have to make some small adjustments in how you relate to her, but that's simply the price of being in an intimate (as in invading my mental/emotional space close) relationship with somebody who's not an exact copy of you.

03-15-2008, 07:42 PM	#5
starfire Ifrit Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 77	Re: How do you find girls who want to move at your pace? Look for girls at places you enjoy going to. You're more likely to meet a girl there with similar interests/values/pacing than a place that's "totally not you". Also, women are wonderfully adaptable. So even if the girl you meet prefers to move at a different pace than you, odds are she'll adjust as long as you explain why you prefer to move at a different pace. You'll also have to make some small adjustments in how you relate to her, but that's simply the price of being in an intimate (as in invading my mental/emotional space close) relationship with somebody who's not an exact copy of you.
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