^ Good tips. I would like to add a little something to your second one though. Yes going out for coffee is much better than than a stale dinner-and-a-movie cliché. You can take this further though by simply having a night on the town. Here are some ideas for places to go other than coffee:
bowling
carnivals/fairs
a live concert
stand-up comedy show
dance club
jazz club
mini golf
museum
picnics
taking her to the top of the highest building in the city
roller blading/skating
ice skating (love ice skating ^_^)
going to the beach/river/lake
the harbor (if you live near an ocean)
shooting pool
star gazing
strip malls
zoos
And manny95? Build up your confidence. This may be why girls aren't saying yes to you when asking them out on dates. Be kind and courteous, but also be confident. Girls like a strong man to take the lead. There is another thread specifically dealing with confidence that can be found
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