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Slayden · 03-13-2008, 12:08 AM

^Good post. I especially agree with lan6000's third paragraph, but not necessarily the fourth. She doesn't sound like she really appreciates you and she is being extremely selfish. You were 30 minutes late due to a serious work-related issue.

If you decide to stay with her, don't try to make it up to her. This will only promote her selfishness and she may end up respecting you even less for it. Another thing is don't put up with her yelling. Firmly instruct her that she is not to yell at you, and if she does, leave the room and ignore her until she calms down. It'll enrage her more at first, and she'll likely go passive-aggressive for a while, but she'll eventually learn to control herself in your presence.

03-13-2008, 12:08 AM	#3
Slayden Confidant {con-FY-dant} Join Date: Jan 2008 Gender : Location: Locating... Age: 20 Posts: 302	Re: My fault or not? I don't know ^Good post. I especially agree with lan6000's third paragraph, but not necessarily the fourth. She doesn't sound like she really appreciates you and she is being extremely selfish. You were 30 minutes late due to a serious work-related issue. If you decide to stay with her, don't try to make it up to her. This will only promote her selfishness and she may end up respecting you even less for it. Another thing is don't put up with her yelling. Firmly instruct her that she is not to yell at you, and if she does, leave the room and ignore her until she calms down. It'll enrage her more at first, and she'll likely go passive-aggressive for a while, but she'll eventually learn to control herself in your presence.