[lan60000]

First, unexpected events occur all the time during your lifetime. You cannot possibly predict every single detail that is about to happen to you, or you'd be a psychic.

Second, lets take this to another approach. Instead of being late because your boss was unsatisfied with your work attendence, and you were late because you had an accident, or one of your relatives had an accident. Ask her what her response would be then, since nothing will always go our way in life.

Third, she only waited for about 30 minutes and shes mad at you for two hours? That is about the most selfish act i've heard this month and i dont see why you need to put up with that kind of attitude, let alone repeated apologies for her. If she doesnt understand the fact that you're squeezing time for work, school, and her, then she doesnt deserve you. Dont waste your time for someone who cant appreciate you.

Last, if you really love her (and ignored my third statement), then just make it up to her. Take all the blame for yourself and treat her to something nice. This proves you're the mature one, and she'll feel bad later on and eventually be at peace with you. Good luck