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lan60000 · 03-07-2008, 10:36 PM

I think he should think on a larger scale than just the present time itself and evaluated the pro's and con's when he confesses to someone.

First, think of all the good points you have and the good points people tell you that you have (friends, family, other girls, etc), and dont tell me you got none because that's impossible.
Second, keep thinking of those good points to remind you how great of a person you are to keep your morale high when you walk up to that girl.
Third, think about the future if you confessed to the girl you love. If she had said yes, then your dream pretty much came true and you'll feel like you just scored 100 on all your tests or won the national championship at some sports. Apart from that, she'll be with you and you'll be able to express your love to her more and more. Think about how happy you'll be when you succeed, and focus on that success. If by some miracle that you've failed, then it's not much of a big deal. It only meant you two werent meant to be, and it gives you the potential to find someone far better in the long run. To me, it's a win-win situation, so full charge ahead bud. :)

03-07-2008, 10:36 PM	#5
lan60000 Shiva Status: Offline Join Date: Feb 2008 Gender : Location: Somewhere peaceful Posts: 330	Re: self confident I think he should think on a larger scale than just the present time itself and evaluated the pro's and con's when he confesses to someone. First, think of all the good points you have and the good points people tell you that you have (friends, family, other girls, etc), and dont tell me you got none because that's impossible. Second, keep thinking of those good points to remind you how great of a person you are to keep your morale high when you walk up to that girl. Third, think about the future if you confessed to the girl you love. If she had said yes, then your dream pretty much came true and you'll feel like you just scored 100 on all your tests or won the national championship at some sports. Apart from that, she'll be with you and you'll be able to express your love to her more and more. Think about how happy you'll be when you succeed, and focus on that success. If by some miracle that you've failed, then it's not much of a big deal. It only meant you two werent meant to be, and it gives you the potential to find someone far better in the long run. To me, it's a win-win situation, so full charge ahead bud. :)