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Originally Posted by Silmeria
ok your friend is an asshole, your friend is incredibly retarded for using logic with his girl.....if she is huging him while eating the nicest way to please her and not to have a problem is turn around clean your, give a smile and giver her a kiss not even on the mouth...in the cheek is ok, works wonders...if he got fired its because its own stupidity and couldnt schedule time for both....i mean for more dense and sensitive the girl is......she understand that he needs to work for to live.
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This is spot on. The paragraph is a little garbled, but the message is what counts the most.
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Originally Posted by lan60000
Well, first of all. Using logic isnt such a bad thing, atleast he's not stupid and only thinks about sex sex sex.
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That is beside the point. You "feel out" a relationship. There is no logical algorithm for love.
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Originally Posted by lan60000
Second of all, acting like nothing's wrong while the girl is giving him some problems due to her actions wont solve anything. In fact, it'll prompt the girl to think she's not doing anything wrong at all.
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Yes and no. You are half right. Girls will misbehave on purpose regularly to test a guy, for which you should call her on it and not put up with it, but this girl isn't doing anything wrong. She's just being affectionate.

What's wrong with that?
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Originally Posted by Silmeria
we know girls are just random just like the title says..why so needy and then cranky...at least sometimes you dont know how a female will react to a situation you can foresee and plan like logically but...remember a girl inst a linear thinking....like some metod or pattern to follow.
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Originally Posted by lan60000
in any case, they're hard to understand even if you know them well. either way, he has to face his problems with her directly, or things could turn for the worse
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Girls are not random. Fuck why am I only guy that understands a woman's mind?!

It's frustrating and I hate spelling it out! I can only imagine how girls feel about it...
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Originally Posted by ImI
Silmeria is correct. You need to help open the girls eyes to see what a loser he is.
Logic doesn't work in relationships, It's used for solving problems that have a "rule" to it girls don't have a rule to them.
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Girls DO have logic, but they think differently than most guys. I think it boils down to women pay more attention than men. Subtle gestures, body language, tone inflection-- girls pay more attention to these than guys usually. And when she finally blows up and storms out of the room, he groggily turns his head with a dopey look on his face and slurs out "Uuuuh... did I do something wrong?" Worse, some guys will then blame
her for what's going on.
