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LightElf · 02-24-2008, 10:03 AM

I dont think the relationship will last very long as well. It'd be better to cleanly break it off. The term jealousy is a word describing the feeling of angriness or unhappiness because someone you like or love is showing interest in someone else. And mere acts such as talking, laughing, or just being near someone else may very well induce emotions to override reason, creating a set of misunderstandings, and thinking your GF/BF may be thinking of cheating on you. Whilst this may be an indication that the person feeling jealousy is deeply in love with his/her GF/BF, it may however also be obsession, which is not the same as sincere love. I believe love cannot exist without trust. Just because a couple is together, it is not right to limit that person's contact with other people, even if it is of the opposite sex. Keeping a leash on your GF/BF like the Fya guy you talked about means that he does not trust her enough to be sure that she only loves him and will not cheat on him. Such a love cannot hold for very long. It would be better to break them off now. I think as a friend it'd be better to do that for the sake of both of them.

But you may well decide to invite both of them to a restaurant or something like that to quitly talk about this whole issue, if you dont like my initial conclusion I offered. I think the best you can do there is to tell them to trust each other, if they really love each other, and if they cant do so, then it is not love, but rather obsession. Or you may decide to have this talk with each of them individually, and let them work it out themselves. That relationship is seriously crumbling, and the best way to save it is to repair their broken trust to each other, and if that doesnt work, it'd be better to end it.

02-24-2008, 10:03 AM	#10
LightElf Ifrit Join Date: Feb 2008 Gender : Location: Germany, but will be soon in the UK for study Posts: 49	Re: How Should i Deal this Couple >_<! I dont think the relationship will last very long as well. It'd be better to cleanly break it off. The term jealousy is a word describing the feeling of angriness or unhappiness because someone you like or love is showing interest in someone else. And mere acts such as talking, laughing, or just being near someone else may very well induce emotions to override reason, creating a set of misunderstandings, and thinking your GF/BF may be thinking of cheating on you. Whilst this may be an indication that the person feeling jealousy is deeply in love with his/her GF/BF, it may however also be obsession, which is not the same as sincere love. I believe love cannot exist without trust. Just because a couple is together, it is not right to limit that person's contact with other people, even if it is of the opposite sex. Keeping a leash on your GF/BF like the Fya guy you talked about means that he does not trust her enough to be sure that she only loves him and will not cheat on him. Such a love cannot hold for very long. It would be better to break them off now. I think as a friend it'd be better to do that for the sake of both of them. But you may well decide to invite both of them to a restaurant or something like that to quitly talk about this whole issue, if you dont like my initial conclusion I offered. I think the best you can do there is to tell them to trust each other, if they really love each other, and if they cant do so, then it is not love, but rather obsession. Or you may decide to have this talk with each of them individually, and let them work it out themselves. That relationship is seriously crumbling, and the best way to save it is to repair their broken trust to each other, and if that doesnt work, it'd be better to end it.