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Queenie · 02-23-2008, 11:32 PM

I tried my best with this couple and i swear ive run out of ideas .
Well, Heres the back ground story of the first couple i have to deal with ~

Fya = My best friend
Kain(Girl)= Also a close friend

About 10 months ago, i hooked them up because they liked each other and i didn't know how there dating life was yet but they seemed happy together at first . As time went by i noticed there both really jealous ppl. So most of the jealously led to arguments . The first couple months , Fya had sacrificed everythnig so that kain would be happy but when fya was sad . kain would only say "lets break up " , which fya hated alot . Then Everytime a break up occurs it seemed to switch roles , where Kain was sacrificing and fya was demanding one .

Finally, in about 9 months Fya couldn't take it and said she wanted a clear break up . which i thought was the best for them , however when we got back to school fya was with kain like everysingle day !!. I asked Fya like what are u doing i thought u broke up and she would reply to me " Were just friends" . So thats what i thought. But when Kain told me she might like another girl , Fya snapped at kain which caused kain to not like anyone and only want fya back .

This led on for like another month or so and i was tryin to tell fya that this isn't good for both of u guys because its like fya was trapping Kain on a leash. Then Around the 10 month or so A guy starts to like Kain and fya became really REALLY jealous . and finally she spoke her words" fya: I still miss kain so .. (tellin me and kain) Tell that other guy to NEVER talk to kain again and cut off ALL contacts with him . So we did and the guy never talked to kain again and fya went back with Kain .

But its been 2 weeks and Fya hasn't shown Any affection to Kain at ALL like not even talking to kain at school . So kain was questioning Fya .
Kain : Why don't u show me any affection any more ?
Fya: I do . u held my hand
Kain : for like 3 seconds and u brushed me off and u talk nice to Rei but not to me ,
Fya : i do give u affection , and im just uncomfortable and i need more time
Kain : What ? whats ur affection u gave me then .
Fya : well, i want to talk to u and want u to sit beside me
Kain : If thats affection then everyone in the world must love each other .

i heard the tone in Fya's voice and she sounded liek she didn't care at all . Now Kain is Exteremly Emo because of this and gettin really pissed off . Yet everytime me or kain try to talk to Fya it seems as if it goes out her ear . And also Fya has put alot of Rules to kain ._. . and i dunt know if thats right or not but here are some of the rules i know .

Fya's Rules 4 Kain

1: Do not talk to other girls/guys
2: Must be with me at all times , in classes u have to use every chance to be near me .
3: No swearing at all even if u tongue slip, if u do it means u don't love me enough
4: Must be home before 10
5: U can't play Maplestory because u flirt with online girls and waste money (when she plays games too and hinted to kain that game>Kain )
6: No texting or Calling in front of her

and Kain is giving up and isn't bothering to fight back anymore soon .
What should i do :[..........

02-23-2008, 11:32 PM	#1
Queenie Ifrit Status: Offline Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 62	How Should i Deal this Couple >_<! I tried my best with this couple and i swear ive run out of ideas . Well, Heres the back ground story of the first couple i have to deal with ~ Fya = My best friend Kain(Girl)= Also a close friend About 10 months ago, i hooked them up because they liked each other and i didn't know how there dating life was yet but they seemed happy together at first . As time went by i noticed there both really jealous ppl. So most of the jealously led to arguments . The first couple months , Fya had sacrificed everythnig so that kain would be happy but when fya was sad . kain would only say "lets break up " , which fya hated alot . Then Everytime a break up occurs it seemed to switch roles , where Kain was sacrificing and fya was demanding one . Finally, in about 9 months Fya couldn't take it and said she wanted a clear break up . which i thought was the best for them , however when we got back to school fya was with kain like everysingle day !!. I asked Fya like what are u doing i thought u broke up and she would reply to me " Were just friends" . So thats what i thought. But when Kain told me she might like another girl , Fya snapped at kain which caused kain to not like anyone and only want fya back . This led on for like another month or so and i was tryin to tell fya that this isn't good for both of u guys because its like fya was trapping Kain on a leash. Then Around the 10 month or so A guy starts to like Kain and fya became really REALLY jealous . and finally she spoke her words" fya: I still miss kain so .. (tellin me and kain) Tell that other guy to NEVER talk to kain again and cut off ALL contacts with him . So we did and the guy never talked to kain again and fya went back with Kain . But its been 2 weeks and Fya hasn't shown Any affection to Kain at ALL like not even talking to kain at school . So kain was questioning Fya . Kain : Why don't u show me any affection any more ? Fya: I do . u held my hand Kain : for like 3 seconds and u brushed me off and u talk nice to Rei but not to me , Fya : i do give u affection , and im just uncomfortable and i need more time Kain : What ? whats ur affection u gave me then . Fya : well, i want to talk to u and want u to sit beside me Kain : If thats affection then everyone in the world must love each other . i heard the tone in Fya's voice and she sounded liek she didn't care at all . Now Kain is Exteremly Emo because of this and gettin really pissed off . Yet everytime me or kain try to talk to Fya it seems as if it goes out her ear . And also Fya has put alot of Rules to kain ._. . and i dunt know if thats right or not but here are some of the rules i know . Fya's Rules 4 Kain 1: Do not talk to other girls/guys 2: Must be with me at all times , in classes u have to use every chance to be near me . 3: No swearing at all even if u tongue slip, if u do it means u don't love me enough 4: Must be home before 10 5: U can't play Maplestory because u flirt with online girls and waste money (when she plays games too and hinted to kain that game>Kain ) 6: No texting or Calling in front of her and Kain is giving up and isn't bothering to fight back anymore soon . What should i do :[..........