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Old 02-17-2008, 05:14 AM   #8
Slayden
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Re: How Do I Fix This ?

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As Slayden has told You she has already made her decision, subconsciously. You should instead find out what this decision is.
I don't think you're very observant. She was begging him to have sex with her, but she told him earlier not to do it. As I already said, she's shifting responsibility to him. She can't completely come to terms with her own desires, which is why she's trying to shift responsibility to him. Underneath it all, she really does want to have sex with him.

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If it's the exact opposite of that You expect You could ruin Your relationship with her.
No. At worst it would be an awkward moment if he follows the kiss/slow-pull-away, but I wouldn't even expect this much to happen.

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Just be careful (and patient if You have to). Don't rush things.
I think I'll quote myself this time.

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There is a small chance that she'll resist and start to push you away. In this case, don't jerk back, rather maintain the kiss and slowly pull away. She's still confused and may need a little time to process everything you've told her, so give her the time. Trust me she'll be brainstorming over it.
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