[kiziroglu]

you got me wrong...
when I said that I won't do anything to buy time, I meant doing things that're only meant to buy time... I mean none of my actions will be done to buy time...

and this "giving love " thing, I never understand...
love isn't something you "give", it's something you "have", which can generally be seen in your attitudes and words...any one who observes my actions would see that I love her, and my words with her will exhibit it... It's not like I'm alienating myself from her, telling her to be deepfreezed for a few years, until I got back to her... I spend time with her as much as I can... we go to movies (she likes them) frequently, I don't like talking on the phone a lot, so we walk around the campus every night. we go to sports together (I'm her capoeira trainer), lots of more which I can't name at the moment... it just, sometimes seem that she wants more , which I can't give her...
so a talk must be done, and I'm asking for few tips to do that talk... a few tips so that my words won't hurt (they usually do :) )

*edit*
and please, I'm not asking for analysiz of my relationship... I don't need that.. I've done that talk will zilllions of people, and none of them made a slight degree of change.
all I want is few tips and may be a guideline which I'll use during the talk I'll make with her (I invited her home, to my hometown, to pass the semester holiday together, so she'll be here like in 1-2 days, which means that the talk will be done soon... very soon...)