[tmmyjames]

Originally Posted by darkJester

mmmm, i remember those days.... as i was reading your post and all the replies i thought of a similar situation that happened to me back in the day....

not sure how old u are, but i'm assuming you're in high school or or at least around that age... n e wayz, i know its a little late, but here's my advice... she's just as confused as u are, well either that or she gets a kick out of stringing people along.... either way, if it's meant to be, it'll happen on its own, and u shouldn't stress over it too much... its best not to take things too seriously at this point in your life, just have fun with your friends and at least devote a little bit of time to your studies.... (u know for the whole future thing) having a gf is nice, but don't go out of your way to find your true love, least not at that point in your life....

my past experience was very similar to what u went/are going through right now... i even did the same thing u did after it was over, ( the getting rid of everything that reminded me of her) thing... i just can't stress enough though that u can't let this sorta thing get to u too much, things like this situation are actually more common than not in junior high, high school, and even college.... and if u take things too seriously, it'll only cause u harm, and even maybe change u for the worst....

hmmm, this may just sound like rambling from a crazy person, or maybe u might find what i said helpful, either now or maybe later on in life..... either way i felt i had to put in my 2 cents...

k thxs...

Hah! Yep you sure are late, but its all good. I related to your post the most. I also thought that she was confused or liked messin wit people's emotions. Im good on my end. I aint the suicidal type cuz Im too goofy to be that way and plus I drown everything out with music just until I meet another...dont know how long that its gonna take. Im still the fun goofy person before this happens.