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Suigintou · 01-15-2008, 08:38 PM

I have a question for the American girls of the world. Before I say anything, I have to say this: I CANNOT DANCE. At all. The extent of my dancing ability is the rock and snap thing from Hitch >.<

I can't say I'm the prettiest guy either. I do have dark hair, blue eyes, and I have little/no acne. However, I am slightly chubby in the gut (almost like a beer belly; chubby in the gut, fine elsewhere), but it's really hard to see when I am wearing a shirt.

So, how can a guy get a girl when he can't dance? I have had success in hitting on girls, but once they want me to hit the dance floor I cower in fear. This is probably because last time I grinded (8th grade, long ago) I made a complete @$$ of myself. What do I do?

Also, how do I pursue the relationship? I had met up with the one girl that I really liked (she was an otaku and had my same musical taste

), but she sort of backed off a little when I asked if we could go out sometime, and gave me an unsure :sure" (no pun intended). Later, I was at the movies with her and some of our friends, and when I put my arm around the top of her seat, she didn't mind (I didn't put it around her shoulder because I was afraid she would make me take it off and it would become really awkward), but I don't know if she noticed. I havent even talked to her in quite a while. So, is there any way to try to find out if she likes me? If so, how can I reconcile the relationship after so long apart?

01-15-2008, 08:38 PM	#1
Suigintou Ifrit Join Date: Jul 2007 Gender : Posts: 83	Getting a girl at a dance? I have a question for the American girls of the world. Before I say anything, I have to say this: I CANNOT DANCE. At all. The extent of my dancing ability is the rock and snap thing from Hitch >.< I can't say I'm the prettiest guy either. I do have dark hair, blue eyes, and I have little/no acne. However, I am slightly chubby in the gut (almost like a beer belly; chubby in the gut, fine elsewhere), but it's really hard to see when I am wearing a shirt. So, how can a guy get a girl when he can't dance? I have had success in hitting on girls, but once they want me to hit the dance floor I cower in fear. This is probably because last time I grinded (8th grade, long ago) I made a complete @$$ of myself. What do I do? Also, how do I pursue the relationship? I had met up with the one girl that I really liked (she was an otaku and had my same musical taste ), but she sort of backed off a little when I asked if we could go out sometime, and gave me an unsure :sure" (no pun intended). Later, I was at the movies with her and some of our friends, and when I put my arm around the top of her seat, she didn't mind (I didn't put it around her shoulder because I was afraid she would make me take it off and it would become really awkward), but I don't know if she noticed. I havent even talked to her in quite a while. So, is there any way to try to find out if she likes me? If so, how can I reconcile the relationship after so long apart?