Well I guess it depends on culture, upbringing (morals, support & love), character, personality, will, past history, adaptability, life-experience, psychological stability, etc., etc., etc.
Soooo, it depends and varies a lot based on lots of factors. You really can't generalize girls. This applies to practically every topic posted in this forum (Ask a Girl).
As a safeguard, some facts should be kept well in mind:
1. This is one sick, deranged, psychotic, abusive, cruel, cold
, and only very rarely beautiful world
. Thus, expect the worst, even if you think you got the best (cause u probably don't). Crap happens. Do your best to deal with it.
:defeat:
2. You will hardly ever find your perfect match, so don't assume your next date is destined to become your betrothed.
3. You are your own person. A breakup does not mean you can't go on. :noooo:Crap happens. Do your best to deal with it. You got food, water, shelter, a good bathroom with nice tiles, and two good legs (hopefully) so get up and use 'em! (Ya, ya, ya FMA). You must keep moving forward toward the future. Don't let the past bog u down, because now you can never change it. Don't forget or repress the past, learn, and grow wiser and stronger!
4. Without sadness
, you cannot know happiness
. In other words, if everyone is happy all the time, then it's not really happiness. Happiness is a heightened state of emotion that is associated with success, fulfillment, etc., so you really can't have happiness without a lack of happiness, as happiness is relative.
5. Most importantly --> NO REGRETS!
PERIOD. Also, NO GRUDGES!
They can damage you psychologically
, temporarily or permanently, and you are dwelling on the past which cannot be rewritten. And what do you care anyway? Probably in less than a century (maybe sooner if that meteor's course isn't changed by 2012
), all will be forgotten and irrelevant. What does it matter what ant A did to ant B? (especially after that semi-truck ran them both over!!
).